SELF CONFIDENCE & SELF ESTEEM
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>>> Do you think that self-confidence is important to succeed? Do you want to increase your self-esteem with simple methods? <<<The reason why building self-esteem has a public dimension, is because the things that you do, as far as your passions go, ultimately have an impact on the lives of others. When you get good at something, it will ultimately affect other people. This is a good thing. You should not keep it private because when its private, there is really no external validation. Its just your own personal, little, private thing, and its really not going to do you much good in terms of your self-confidence. Why? Youre taking out the external validation part of the upward spiral. Youre just saying to yourself: This is good. Im happy with this. Well, the moment you step out into the public square, and people compare you to other people with similar passions, chances are quite good that you might not measure up. All these good feelings you have built will fall like a house of cards. So, you have to let in external validations and metric systems. You have to compare yourself to others with the same passion. In other words, your accomplishments must be based on objective standards. If youre really good, others will be positively impacted. Your positive impact on others is a crucial component of building self-esteem. The external validation process is just a feedback mechanism. It just tells you that if your passion, seemingly subjective as it is, can actually be objectively judged to be good. Thats when you know you actually have a real accomplishment. Otherwise, youre just playing games with yourself. Building self-esteem cant be a self-absorbed and a totally self-enclosed process. Its not a closed loop. This is nothing to be afraid of; this is nothing to run away from. It isnt just about you entertaining your subjective reality. It is real precisely because others are impacted positively. The keyword here is positively
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